"Is Three a Crowd"
OK. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a little over a year and we've discussed the idea of having a threesome. Do you think that is a good idea to bring a third person (female) into the bedroom at such an early stage of our relationship? Do you think that my man wanting a threesome is a sign of me lacking in the union. Lastly, who do you think should choose the third party? Thank you.
Well, first off, the fact that you two discussed having a threesome TOGETHER leads me to believe that there's somewhat of a mutual desire to partake because weather you were the one to initiate the conversation or not, you still considered it to some degree. I think at the point you are in your relationship wouldn't be bad to try something like this because you've had time to learn each other and build TRUST, which is very important. In that time you've expressed your deepest desires and fantasies to each other so I assume that this came up in those conversations. I can undoubtedly tell you that it would definitely be a hell of an experience thatll be something to remember, I'm assuming. Due to the fact that this question popped up in my inbox, im sure your nowhere near 100% comfortable. Let's be real, your probably not 50% sure. You really just gotta consider if the possibilities of what could happen after are anything you can handle. Ask yourself these questions; are you still gonna be secure with yourself and your relationship afterwards? Is this experience gonna make you look at your man differently? If you weren't before, are you gonna start worrying about him being around other women now? But if you believe you can look past all that, boot up and let the fun begin. As far as picking the 3rd party, it's gotta be someone your BOTH attracted to so you'll really be able to enjoy the moment and everyone involved will wanna participate. That's really all I got right now for this one... And let me add, your performance in bed, on the couch, in the laundry room, in the back seat of his car (Or back of the bus if he doesn't drive), or wherever you fuck won't affect him/her from wanting to have a threesome. No matter whether the sex is good or bad, adding an extra pair of titties will always make it a an even better experience